A monitoring system and method for controlling access to, and especially protecting against unauthorized requests to provide input to, e.g., program, or elicit output from, a vehicular or other mobile device, such as an electronic control unit (ECU), adapted for use with the system, wherein said system, in a preferred embodiment, is configured to receive the request within a safe-zone, block its execution by the vehicle, send an objection message back to the source, and send a report to a law enforcement agency, based on the location of the source of the request.