A fabric softening composition comprises a cationic fabric softening compound comprising 2 or more long hydrocarbyl chains, an oil comprising from 8 to 40 carbon atoms, a nonionic stabiliser comprising a nonionic alkoxylate having an average alkoxylation number of from 10 to 40 wherein the composition is in the form of a macroemulsion. A method for softening fabrics comprises adding the fabric softening composition to a laundry operation.